Today I propose one small step for man, one giant step for mankind, in the right direction. A step towards loving yourself. A step towards acceptance. A step towards a positive use of the media. I want to take a stand against cyber-bullying, from the little bullies and the big corporations. Confidence shouldn't be muted by media screams, simply so that they can sell it back to us. I am more than a size 8. I am more than anonymous insults directly spat over the internet or indirectly spat into beauty products; 2 for 1 special anyone?
In local news, a student at our school recently decided it would be funny to make a slander account, mocking other students. It wasn't funny. Our student took a stand and fought hate the way we always manage to, with #CBLove. We fought our problems the best way possible, with #CBSolutions.
Ideally, everyone would jump on this bandwagon, bullies included, of course. We could all spread love instead of anxiety. You deserve that, you deserve that because you are an individual, you are beautiful, and you are important. I love you.
We've learned, from the media, to pick on flaws to make ourselves feel better. Calling someone fat doesn't make you any thinner, calling someone gay doesn't make you any straighter, and calling someone retarded doesn't win you any Nobel prize. However, calling someone beautiful can turn their whole day around, and you'll feel better too. Spread the kind words, via twitter, a secret post-it note, or face to face. Let people know that they are lovely the way they are, that includes you. It's easy to get suffocated by your own insecurities when you're always breathing in. So take a deep breath, appreciate yourself, and spread the love.
Just a friendly reminder from another human being, you are not alone.
Photo sources: Tumblr (Original Authors Unknown)
Sunday, 18 November 2012
Wednesday, 7 November 2012
Independence - Freedom - Happiness
Today I felt very inspired, inspired to travel to Vietnam, all due to this episode of a travel show, Departures! One of the hosts, Scott Wilson & Justin Lukach, put it best when they said, "people see Vietnam as a war, not a country." This was accurate of my own views of Vietnam. I had completed a research assignment on their war last year, but never bothered to look into the broader picture. After seeing that episode I was dumbfounded by the rich culture and friendly people they met among gorgeous scenery. So, feeling inspired, I looked into some more Vietnam trivia, from the ever reliable, Wikipedia.
- Population 87.8 million
- Area 331,210 km2 (size of Germany)
- Has been inhabited since the Paleolithic era (2.6 million years ago)
- Ranked 16th worldwide in biological diversity, being home to approximately 16% of the world's species
- Bicylces or motorcycles are the most common form of transport in the cities
- 85% of population identify as Buddhist
- Unemployment at 2.3%
- Literacy rates at 90.3%
More importantly, as far as I'm concerned...
- Round trip flights, Ottawa to Ho Chi Minh, start from $1,682.82
Here are some great pictures I found of Vietnam, from National Geographic, to give you a taste of what I'm now day dreaming of!
Tuesday, 6 November 2012
A Bitter Too Late
Twas the night of elections, when all through the land
All the creatures were stirring, from NY to Los Ang.
The poll stations were hung, in the public, with care
In hopes the eligible voters soon would be there
Some adults were nustled, all snug in their bed,
With visions of the economy boosting in their heads.
But some with no beds, not even a cap,
Had to settle outside for a long winter's nap.
On the White House lawn there was such a clatter,
"So why bother vote, if I don't even matter!?"
Pompous politicians argue over cash,
But regardless, stocks grow and they crash.
I'm currently watching the CNN coverage of results and as anyone with a basic comprehension of the electoral college system (very few Americans) can tell you... the system is awful. Quoted as "a filter from pure democracy". To put it very simply, an entire state votes for one candidate, based on 51% + of the votes. Whether or not this system is effective is one thing but the repercussions are clear. If you live in a red (Republican) state your vote for Obama is pointless, so why even bother voting? Based on the twittersphere for example, is very Pro-Bama, as many youth are. However, that is not being reflected in the votes adding up on my television screen. It doesn't matter if 99% of Americans are Democratic, it matters what 51% of VOTERS are, well I suppose even that is a stretch... 51% of Electorates are what decide America's 4 year destiny....
Just a short cynical rant on the red, white, and blue (literally).
All the creatures were stirring, from NY to Los Ang.
The poll stations were hung, in the public, with care
In hopes the eligible voters soon would be there
Some adults were nustled, all snug in their bed,
With visions of the economy boosting in their heads.
But some with no beds, not even a cap,
Had to settle outside for a long winter's nap.
On the White House lawn there was such a clatter,
"So why bother vote, if I don't even matter!?"
Pompous politicians argue over cash,
But regardless, stocks grow and they crash.
- A Short Sattirical Poem By Self, Based On Twas The Night Before Christmas
I'm currently watching the CNN coverage of results and as anyone with a basic comprehension of the electoral college system (very few Americans) can tell you... the system is awful. Quoted as "a filter from pure democracy". To put it very simply, an entire state votes for one candidate, based on 51% + of the votes. Whether or not this system is effective is one thing but the repercussions are clear. If you live in a red (Republican) state your vote for Obama is pointless, so why even bother voting? Based on the twittersphere for example, is very Pro-Bama, as many youth are. However, that is not being reflected in the votes adding up on my television screen. It doesn't matter if 99% of Americans are Democratic, it matters what 51% of VOTERS are, well I suppose even that is a stretch... 51% of Electorates are what decide America's 4 year destiny....
Just a short cynical rant on the red, white, and blue (literally).
A basic graph of the electoral college votes in the last presidential election - Source: Wikipedia
Sunday, 28 October 2012
Genderless Washrooms
Currently, at CBSS, led by myself, is a movement in support of genderless washrooms. To be more clear the end goal is to have one washroom be transformed (by the change of a door sign) to an established genderless washroom, for single use only. This option would create a safe space for any students identifying as intersexed, transgender, genderqueer, questioning, or any student that is uncomfortable with the traditional binary-gender washroom system.
This washroom option has been a goal of our school's GSA, gay-straight alliance, for years now. The washroom could set a new standard for schools provincially and nationally. CB has stepped up as a leading school in queer youth rights and anti-bullying, this progressive action is the next step. We can't simply settle with the changes we have made, we must move forward.
To back up are movement we have used social networking; instead of a petition class to class we have a facebook page our supporters can like. At this moment in time we have 865 likes, ranging from CB students to trans-rights activists in the UK, U.S.A, Australia and more! Check is out here!
This page has been faced with some negative feedback also, which was to be expected. However, for every problem people have with the washrooms we have solutions. Here are some examples:
This washroom option has been a goal of our school's GSA, gay-straight alliance, for years now. The washroom could set a new standard for schools provincially and nationally. CB has stepped up as a leading school in queer youth rights and anti-bullying, this progressive action is the next step. We can't simply settle with the changes we have made, we must move forward.
To back up are movement we have used social networking; instead of a petition class to class we have a facebook page our supporters can like. At this moment in time we have 865 likes, ranging from CB students to trans-rights activists in the UK, U.S.A, Australia and more! Check is out here!
This page has been faced with some negative feedback also, which was to be expected. However, for every problem people have with the washrooms we have solutions. Here are some examples:
- "Boys have penises, girls have vaginas, done" - Incorrect, gender and sex are not always coordinated as societal norms dictate, and some people were born with both genitalia, this may be a minority but does that mean their rights are less valid? No.
- "There are no transgender people at CB, it's pointless" - There may not be any publicly vocal transgender students at our school, but that doesn't mean they do not exist. Even if there were none, the entire school population changes every 4 years, we should be prepared to create a safe and accepting environment for every type of human being. The establishment of the washrooms would make a huge statement to any student at CB under the gay-brella, it represents how accepting we are.
- "A boy and a girl will go in and have sex" - If a couple wishes to have sex on school property then a sign on a door will not affect their decision, the signs on the male washroom are not a security system to block all vaginas. Where there is a will there is a way.
- "If it is a private washroom, people will just use it to poop" (This has been a largely voiced concern, seriously) - If it is a smelly washroom, it is still a safe washroom and that is what is important.
- "I don't agree with this!" - Awesome, don't use it. This washroom is an option so that nobody is uncomfortable. This comment reminds me of the closed minded gay marriage debate, if you don't like gay marriage, don't get gay married! Rights are about options, we can't take away peoples rights and peoples options, we must take a stand for the minority even if the majority sees it as frivolous.
- "We can't afford a new washroom" - This comment is more of a misunderstanding we will not be building a new washroom, simply changing a door sign, which shall be paid for with the funds SAFE, our GSA, has raised!
All support is appreciated and I'll post more of our progress once we move forward to administration!
Tuesday, 16 October 2012
The Perks of the Movie I Saw Last Tuesday - A Film Review
As a high school student making minimum wage, no day is a more glorious occasion than cheap movie day at the cinema. After my friend and I filled our bellies with the thrifty choice of Mongolian Village we set off to see The Perks Of Being a Wallflower. Without spoiling the ending I will spoil the expectation that it is anything like the trailer. However, it was very authentic to the original novel from 1999; this was thanks to the fact that Stephen Chbosky, the author, was also the film's screenplay writer and the director. If you haven't read this renowned book, a warning it is very sad - so sad in fact that if you leave the theater and you aren't ugly crying you may not have a heart. Fortunately, unlike many gloomy movies, the ending is anything but cliche and expected, but that's all I'll give away. The biggest criticism I have for this piece is the poor casting choices for the lead characters. I suspect someone upstairs simply wanted to throw Emma Watson's name on their movie poster, as she did not deliver the character of Sam with any justice. The soundtrack was great, with risk of posing as wanna-be-hipster. All these factors lead to a Rotten Tomato rating of 86% and an audience rating average of 95%. My friend and I were among the majority and I highly recommend seeing this piece, if only on cheap Tuesday.
Movie Poster Source: http://www.filmofilia.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/The_Perks_of_Being_a_Wallflower_8_Poster.jpg
Wednesday, 26 September 2012
Blasphemy in the UN
blas·phe·my
noun, plural blas·phe·mies.
1. impious utterance or action concerning God or sacred things.
2. Judaism .
a. an act of cursing or reviling God.
b. pronunciation of the Tetragrammaton (YHVH) in the original, now forbidden manner instead of using a substitute pronunciation such as Adonai.
3. Theology . the crime of assuming to oneself the rights or qualities of God.
4. irreverent behavior toward anything held sacred, priceless, etc.: He uttered blasphemies against life itself.
The controversial anti-muslim video that his been enciting countless riots and protests accross the middle east has now been cause for debate in the UN as it is considering enacting an anti-blasphemy law. From the western world this is not being met well; as the U.S. government refused to demand the elimination of the video, insulting Mohamed, they will not stand to have their first amendment, the freedom of speech impeeched. Anger from the muslim community with the world is bumping heads with the Americans; as serious as murders at embassys, though many peaceful protests have ensued also. The debate is whose rights must be protected and how should the UN respond to bullying on a global scale?
Photosource: http://heresalink.com/search/atheism
[US President Barack Obama speaking in the UN earlier this week]
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[US President Barack Obama speaking in the UN earlier this week]
Definiton cited from http://www.dictionary.com
Monday, 24 September 2012
Same Love for Mackelmore
A new song on hip-hop artist, Mackelmore's, newest album, The Heist, is anything but the same from this genre of the music industry. Same love is a song promoting marriage equality comes from a refreshing angle because as Mackelmore says himself within this piece, "if I was gay I would think hip-hop hated me". This song contrasts with the word "faggot" that is embedded in many popular hip hop songs, along the bandwagon of macho-ism. As for the song itself, Same Love, is a fantastic! As usual Mackelmore impresses us with his word play and rhyme and in this piece Mary Lambert's voice is a perfect addition; few reviews of the song disagree. The song's message, in addition to the proceeds, are in support of marriage equality so from this gay Mackelmore fan it receives 3 thumbs up!
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